by DeAnna Hill
I recently watched a video of someone declaring that self care and self love was a reason to be selfish. The feelings that washed over me while watching it was absolutely awful. SELF CARE IS NOT SELFISH.
Now, are there some people who probably use it to be selfish, sure… but there are also people who use the Bible for their own gains, and people who use charities in terrible ways too. You will always have that.
You can not take care of others, if your personal needs are not met. Believe me, I know. I’ve tried. I am a mom.