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No Ordinary Tree {Tour of Trees}

By Helen Lampkin

Life doesn’t have to be ordinary” has long been my life mantra – and that has come to include our family Christmas tree!

 Family Christmas Tree

Years ago (c. 1970’s), my father-in-law (a not so ordinary kind of guy that we loved to the moon and back) always purchased “live“ trees for the Christmas holiday.  The day after Christmas the tree would be planted along the edge of his pond, all of which are still there today.

The holiday came when my husband and I decided we wanted to keep the tradition his dad started alive and the tree too! 

First we bought only traditional looking Christmas trees: noble fir, Fat Albert spruce, and once a white pine.

White Pine Planting

But my son and son-in-law made me promise to not do white pine again because it turned out to be a “grinch” to plant!  Let’s just say we all needed a cup of eggnog after that incident.

Our home has several trees that we have planted from Christmases past.  The last three years we went out on a limb and chose a Blue Atlas Cedar.  If you’re not familiar with this variety – trust me – it’s definitely not your ordinary Christmas tree! 

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Fat Albert Spruce

Blue Atlas Cedar 

A little like “Whoville” of Dr. Seuss fame, the Blue Atlas when dressed in holiday finery brings a delightful smile to all.  Its slender and winsome nature brings some challenges in decorating, but if you’re an adventurous soul, you’re up for the challenge! 

Bringing in the tree can be daunting, so enlist helpers!

Bringing in the Tree

Before Dressing the Tree

Dressed Tree

 

A few tips I’ve learned along the way: 

  • Plan to have the live tree inside your home no longer than three weeks.  (make Dec. 26th your planting date-don’t forget to water the tree well when planting)
  • Dig the planting hole before Christmas!
  • Live trees come in a large buckets or root ball.  Place a waterproof pad under to protect your flooring.
  • Water smaller amounts every 3-4 days the entire time it is in your house.
  • There is always a risk that the tree will go into shock once planted.  Don’t assume it’s a goner.  I’ve had more than one lose every single needle, only to have them all reappear come Spring.

The trees are now starting to become like members in the family.  You know what I mean, some short, some tall, some a littler fuller than others.  Some a little prickly, some soft and flexible. But we love each of them for all their unique qualities!

Last year’s tree had so much personality in his shape we named him “the giving tree” because of his long willowy arms that seemed to want to reach out and give us a welcoming hug!

Giving Tree

 

I still see that in him when I see him in his special place in our yard.

Giving Tree in Fall

 

Whether it be inspiration from my father in law, Dr. Seuss, or the love for family, I encourage you to step out of the ordinary, do something different, embrace going green, create new family traditions, and start planting beautiful memories along the way!

 

From my table to yours,
helen

Helen's headshotHelen Lampkin, woman of faith, devoted wife, mother and grandmother, lives an inspired “no ordinary” life based on the words found in Colossians 3:23 – “do all things wholeheartedly to the Lord.” This inspiration is at the heart of all she does and has led her to become an entrepreneur, artist, adventurous cook, recipe developer/writer, journaler, and blogger. Find Helen online at Helen’s Table, Instagram:@helenstable, Pinterest, Twitter, My Brother’s Salsa, and No Ordinary Broom.

Our Story {Women’s History}

Our Story {Women’s History}
Written by ARWB March 2012 Bloggger of the Month, Jennifer Janes, of Jennifer A. Janes

As I considered the topic “Women’s History,” I thought about some of the women I have studied and considered researching one who inspires me as fodder for this post. All I could think about, though, was our history.

I have regrets. I am not a genealogist, and I really don’t have a desire to spend lots of time tracing our family roots back to debtors’ prison in Europe. (I have family members who have already done that for me.) What saddens me is that I’ve lost stories that are part of who I am, part of who my daughters are. Our family is full of amazing women, yet their stories are lost because the storytellers have died, relationships have eroded, or I neglected to write down the stories I was told while they were fresh on my mind.

I have some mementoes to pass on to my daughters: a wedding band from my great-grandmother, jewelry from my grandmother, the quilt with flour sacking on the back that my great-great-grandmother made. I have a few stories too, but not as many as I wish I had. One woman in our family survived abuse at the hands of a man struggling with mental illness. After her escape, she got her college degree while raising two boys and had a successful career as an English teacher and school counselor.

 

Another woman in my family has been strong through circumstances that would have destroyed a weaker person. At the end of her ordeal, her husband’s health was wrecked, and she had relocated and left behind all of her friends and most of what she owned. When my girls are older, I will share her story with them, and they will look at her with new respect and will appreciate even more the time she has invested in their lives.

I remember snippets of other stories too: a crippled cousin who had to live with other family members because her own family couldn’t care for her medical needs, a maiden aunt who had a very long and successful nursing career, the woman who watched her brother walk away to buy a pair of shoes and never saw him again. No one ever knew what happened to him.

As you think about Women’s History this month, please take time to consider your story. Don’t make the same mistake I did. Talk to the history-keepers this month. Record or write down their stories. Your children will thank you.

Jennifer is a history buff who lives with her husband and two daughters in Southwest Arkansas. She enjoys reading, writing, Bible study, and spending time with friends and family. To follow her story, visit:

 

 

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Retro Wednesday {More Christmas}

Welcome to our new feature called ‘Retro Wednesday’.  We know you, the members of ARWB, are busy writing tons of great content for your own websites.  We want you to have the opportunity to share these links with our other readers.  Each Wednesday we will feature several posts from our archives as well as your archives by providing an excerpt and a link to your favorite post from your personal blog.  Sometimes we will have a theme, sometimes we will post a variety of links.  This weeks theme is Christmas! Enjoy!

 

Gifts of Gold, Frankincense and Myrrh

Read Gifts of Gold, Frankincense and Myrrh from Kimberly’s blog Write Your World and the next time you talk about Christmas with your friends you will be able to impress them with your knowledge of the gifts the Magi brought to baby Jesus.

 

MyTop 10 Foodie Christmas Gifts

Are you looking for some last minute gifts for that Foodie on your list?  Terri, from Terri’s Table, shares a list of what she thinks are the Top 10 Foodie Christmas Gifts complete with links to online marketplaces that will help make your Christmas shopping a breeze!

 

Four Days of Christmas

When you have a big family, sometimes the Christmas celebration extends beyond one day! Karen (Ting’s Mom) shares her Four Days of Christmas with us.

 

Do you have a post on your blog that you would love to share with our readers?  We will be doing this through our Retro Wednesday feature.  Each Wednesday we will feature several posts from our archives as well as your archives by providing an excerpt and a link to your favorite post from your personal blog.  If you would like to submit a post for our Retro Wednesday feature please email a short excerpt (300 characters or less) along with a link to the post to Julie@arkansaswomenbloggers.com with “Retro Wednesday” in the subject line.  Please be sure to also include your name and blog title.  Please note that we will keep an ongoing list of Retro Wednesday posts and may not be able to notify you regarding the specific day on which your link will appear.  Additionally, if you are interested in submitting original content for our site you may click here to see our Posting Guidelines.